Frequently Asked Questions
❓ What is Shy Social Club?
Shy Social Club is a new events space for shy, introverted, socially overwhelmed, or neurodivergent people who want to meet others – without the chaos, pressure, or awkwardness of traditional social events.
We’re starting in Edinburgh, creating gentle, welcoming experiences in cosy venues where you can show up exactly as you are – no forced fun, no small talk required.
❓ Who is it for?
Our events are for anyone who:
Feels socially anxious or burnt out
Finds typical meetups too loud, busy, or draining
Craves connection but on their own terms
Is neurodivergent (ADHD, autism, etc.) or just “wired a little different”
Whether you're the quiet observer, the overthinker, the ghoster, or the one who always cancels last-minute – you’re welcome here.
❓ Do I have to talk to people?
Nope. Everything is optional.
We provide conversation prompts, name stickers to show your social energy level, and soft structure to help connection feel easier – but you're never expected to perform or participate in any way you're not comfortable with.
❓ What actually happens at an event?
Each event has a slightly different theme (e.g. a craft night, low-key games, gentle chat), but the vibe is always the same: cosy, inclusive, and pressure-free.
You'll arrive, be greeted kindly, get a free tote bag (for first-timers), pick a name sticker (optional), and ease into the space however feels good – sitting quietly, chatting, crafting, or just sipping a drink.
❓ Is this just for women?
Nope! Shy Social Club is open to all genders and identities.
The environment is designed to be soft, low-pressure, and kind – so anyone who values that atmosphere is welcome.
❓ Is this a dating thing?
Nope!
This is strictly about friendship, community, and connection. There’s no speed dating or romantic pressure – just good vibes and soft company.
❓ Will there be food or drinks?
Most of our events take place in cafés, bookshops, or cosy semi-private/private venues where food or drinks will be available to buy – and sometimes included with your ticket. Details will always be clear on the event page.
❓ How much do tickets cost?
Most of our events are priced between £10-£25, depending on the type of event, the size of the space, and what’s included (like drinks, craft materials, or free take-home goodies).
We know that cost can be a barrier, and we never want anyone to feel excluded – so we always try to offer fair prices.
Your ticket helps cover things like:
Cosy venue hire
Thoughtful touches (like tote bags, sticker packs, or supplies)
Time spent planning, designing, and creating a safe, supported space
We’re not here to make anyone feel pressured to spend – just to make sure the event can exist (and continue).
If you ever want to attend but find cost difficult, please reach out. We’ll always try to find a way.
❓ What if I’m too anxious to come?
That’s exactly why this space exists.
We totally understand that showing up is hard – even for something designed to be anxiety-friendly. You’re not alone.
We’re working on little extras to help ease the nerves, like:
Pre-event welcome emails
Quiet arrival time slots
Clear what-to-expect guides
A “first-timer zone” where everyone’s in the same boat
Virtual connections with other attendees
And if you buy a ticket but feel unable to attend on the day, just email us – we’ll always do our best to support you, no judgement.
❓ Can I come alone?
Yes – the event is designed with solo attenders in mind.
You’re not expected to know anyone, and there’s no awkward ice-breaking circle. Just a gentle space where being by yourself is totally okay.
❓ What if I mask a lot / worry I won’t fit in?
We get it. Many of us do too.
This is a space for people who’ve always felt slightly out of sync in social situations. You don’t have to explain your brain here – you just get to exist.
❓ Can I suggest an event idea?
Yes please! We’re always open to ideas from our community. Whether it's a niche activity, a certain vibe, or even a venue you love – drop us an email at info@shysocialclub.com or DM us on Instagram: @shysocial.club
❓ Will you be running events in other cities?
We’re starting in Edinburgh, but we’re open to growing in the future.
London is likely next – and we’d love to hear where else this kind of space is needed. Join our waitlist to vote for your city and be the first to know if we launch near you.
❓ How can I stay in the loop?
Join our email list to get early access to tickets, tips for socially anxious people, and gentle updates about upcoming events.
You can also follow us on Instagram: @shysocial.club
☕ Want to Support the Club?
If you love the idea behind Shy Social Club but can’t make it to an event yet — or just want to help us grow — you can buy us a little coffee over on Ko-fi.
Every contribution goes towards tote bags, sticker packs, venue hire, and helping create more gentle spaces for shy people to connect.
Even a few pounds means the world.
Thank you for helping make quiet feel welcome. 💚